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Overcoming Perfectionism Made Her A Better Singer

Episode 24 · June 9, 2026 · 52 min

Are you a perfectionist? Do you set exceptionally high standards for yourself and struggle with self-criticism? Or are you simply curious about the mindset of a perfectionist?

In this episode, we explore perfectionism through the lens of Bangkok-based singer Athalie de Koning. For years, she had no idea she was a perfectionist, believing her relentless standards were completely normal, until someone brought it to her attention.

For the first time, this 39-year-old Dutch immigrant publicly opens up about her struggle to become the "perfect singer." She also shares a deeply personal and frightening experience that ultimately forced her to confront her perfectionism and begin addressing it.

If you've ever wondered how perfectionism can shape a person's life, this episode offers a powerful firsthand perspective. Discover why letting go of the need to be perfect proved transformative, liberating, and ultimately made Athalie a better singer. You won't want to miss this fascinating conversation.